Showing posts with label dating. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dating. Show all posts

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Online Dating Tips for Men

So you’ve just joined an online dating community. Do not be
discouraged when your prospect dates have not yet responded
to your queries.


Women members of online dating portals receive an average
of fifty to 200 queries from other members of the opposite
sex. This means she’s just taking time going through all
the queries she had received. You need to be a bit more
patient.

Have a proactive approach when it comes to online dating.
Focusing on one woman would reduce your chances of landing
a response.

Try sending messages to different women in order to bolster
the probabilities of getting a good response.

Carefully choosing your would-be dates is a good thing to
do since this would help you land the dates who have the
same interests as yours. However, don’t be too selective.

You have to try creating a unique profile when sending
messages. Make it stand out because there will be a lot of
messages for one woman from other members of the online
dating community.

Starting out with an interesting username is favorable. In
addition, read through the profiles of your intended
partners in order to incorporate a few things they like on
your own profile, but keep in mind to include just the
things you are actually interested in.

By doing so, your prospective partners will read through
your profile after receiving a query from you and end up
remembering you because of the stuff that’s on your
profile.

She may even feel that you took the time to read through
her profile and subsequently establish a connection with
her.

Be truthful about the things you put on your profile. Lying
about stuff will just ruin your entire reputation in the
online dating community.

In addition, it will be harder to correct lies whenever you
and your dates have known each other better. It would also
prevent you from enjoying while you’re on a date with the
other members of the online dating community because you’ll
be too careful to cover up all the lies you’ve told your
dates before you got to go out on a date with them.

The Cat String Theory Explained

What is the Cat String Theory?
The Cat string theory deals with the subconscience way we desire things, you always want what you can't have and never want what you do. The idea is to convey yourself as within reach of the target but never obtained. This can be applied to everyone.

How to apply it to women:
To apply it to women, you must look un-attracted to the female, yet still very friendly and easy to get along with. Show you have the qualities women want, but do so without looking like your trying. You must be the string in the girls eyes. 

Common Mistakes:
As soon as the female starts to show attraction, you will want to jump at the opportunity. Hold back, make her work for you. Do not give the cat the string, or even worse, become the cat. Sometimes they show attraction as a shit test. Wait for the perfect moment to strike.

Dos and Donts
DO Look her in the eye.
DO Remain interesting
DO Be yourself. (Unless you suck at life. Then be yourself... just... better)
DO Use Negs.
DONT Be an ass
DONT Suck at life.
DONT Lean forward every time she talks.