This whole "game" is revolving around trying to find out what girls want. Everyone has different ideas, but none grasp it fully. The art of seduction is to make her want you, correct? well try to have qualities she wants.
1. Confidence.
This is the #1 rule. Always be sure of yourself. There is no use to fear or worry, in fact it usually works against you. You were fine before you approached her, however it goes, good or bad, you will be fine without her. Let it be a privledge for her to be an ASPECT of your life.
2. Security.
Both financially and physically... along with mentally. If you can't support yourself, why are you wasting time on here, go get a job. physically by having a hint of badass. say you took karate. or roman greco. or bjj. And mentally by assuring her you dont just want to hurt her. (If her getting hurt is a side effect, its a mis understanding :p)
3. Excitement
Dont be boring. Stand out from every other person. Peacocking is one way to do it, but i mean on a more mental level. Dont be every other guy. Be different, be new, be yourself. If you can, dont always use scripted routines. Take a risk. Add some flair.
3.5. Humor and Wit
Be funny. Have a since of humor. Dont be a complete smartass, but at least know how to use sarcasm.
4. Social status
Have friends. Preferably ones who dont just talk about sarging and drugs and video games(etc)... have legit friends. Dont make your whole life about 1 thing, or you will become boring.
5. Intelligence
Women dont want a dumb ass. They want someone who can connect on a deeper level with them. If you seem like a pig, just wanting sex, you just lost your target. Your job is to be the acception to the rule.
6. Appearance wise
There are no ugly people. just lazy people. Take some time and care about your appearance. get some nice looking clothes instead of your friends heavy metal T-shirt. Wash your face. take showers. Hit the gym. etc. Also, makeup is not just for girls. if you can pull it off... pull it off.
7. Honesty
Dont lie to them at every turn. Take my advice. Some lies are ok... but you have to put in a hint of yourself or your just a copycat.
8. They want to work for you.
You cant be easy. don't show attraction right off. make them work hard to get it. give it to them for a while... then give your attention to someone else. let your target want to get your attention. make her try. make her work to get you. If you close... she will feel acomplished about pulling it off.
9. Sweetness
They do not like to be downright insulted. negs are fine, but dont go to far. Everyone has their limit. Show a deep inner caring, but act like your trying to hide it... it will make her see you as hard on the outside, and romantic on the inside. (I'm saying be sweet, not whipped. Every once and a while, you can show affection... but no one likes a clingy bastard.
10. Sex.
Show a guy a playboy magazine, and hes ready to go. You have to work a girl up to it. But in a way where she doesn't think your trying to hard. But once you get her wanting it... She will want it. Bad.
10.5. Sex (With you)
This is a bit harder. She will want sex, but she will not want to show it. What you need to do is get into her comfort zone. When she feels safe, happy, or some other amazing emotion... Use a closer routine.
11. Have a life of your own that doesn't revolve around her/ women in general.
Title says it all. See #4
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Being really good at just one aspect of this(EX. Your rich) Isn't enough. you have to try to learn the full spectrum. Women look at men as a whole. Not just one thing. Also, you cant just appear to have this, well not all of it. Some things you will have to work for. Women also have a deep yearning for romanticism, but also they want to feel your an accomplishment. So cocky funny is a must. Let them like you, but not quite have you. (Cat string theory.) Understand?
I hope this helps. I made it off past experience and surveys with lots of women
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